Today's rant...I mean topic...is on being a parent. The experience is interesting, to say the very least. Some people say it's the greatest joy they have ever experienced. Whenever I read this, I hear a little voice in my head that says "What? Are you crazy?!?"
Let me follow the above statement by saying that I love my son very, very much. That is a fact. I also believe it is a fact that children are meant to test you in every way you can imagine. They try your patience, your sanity, your temper, your finances, and your very ability to be a decent role model. It's a journey that both child and parent make together. As the child grows and matures, so does the parent. Both of you learn from each phase they go through. Every milestone for them is an celebration of their achievement, as well as a tribute to your ability to stand by your child and survive with your sanity intact.
I believe it should not be stated that children are our greatest joy, but instead it should be said that children give us some of our most joyful moments. It's a lot of pressure to put on a child, considering life with your child isn't joyful 100% of the time. They can't be an angel all the time. They are still learning and growing, and making lots of mistakes along the way. Give them credit for bringing you joy, but also acknowledge the fact that they will, and do, drive you to the very edge of craziness.
